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How I Quit the Bottle (the Hair Dye Bottle)
There’s been a recent barrage of going gray and loving it articles. I have many thoughts on the subject. One, is that these articles often mention how much money the author saves now that they stop coloring their hair. I’ve only had my hair professionally colored i.e. bleached, twice in my entire life because I thought maybe a professional would damage is less and get better results than when I would do it myself like four times in two days and still have apricot-hued strips. My hair did not become perfect platinum in one go even when I forwent d.i.y. and paid a good deal of money. My question is do average women really spend $200+ every six weeks to get their hair colored?
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Pause | Mary Ruefle | Granta Magazine
Pause | Mary Ruefle | Granta Magazine
…you have discovered that being invisible is the biggest secret on earth, the most wondrous gift anyone could ever have given you.
Nope, still not liking this sentiment.
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Andie MacDowell, Still Worth It
Andie MacDowell, Still Worth It
The critical praise, some of it backhanded — Andie MacDowell can act! — reminded the actress of the year she turned 40, and colleagues asked her, as she recalled recently, how it felt to have hit an age when she’d never work again.
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Parker Posey Still Loves Generation X
Parker Posey Still Loves Generation X
You don’t find that there are many movies made with women like you in mind? There’s so many women out there that are like, “I’m like that!” They like the Christopher Guest movies. Or they’re living in Portland or Seattle or Austin or New Orleans or New York City or Silver Lake and Eagle Rock. I’d love to see the story of those people. Or people that are more like us. Because I love my generation. I love Generation X.
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Exclusive: June 2018 cover star Zadie Smith weighs in on the great age debate
Exclusive: June 2018 cover star Zadie Smith weighs in on the great age debate
I grew up in a culture suspiciously eager to convince me that an 80-year-old woman with a 20-year-old man was at the best comically grotesque, at the worst, some form of perversity, while Chaplin and his youthful loves, by contrast, were an example of the ‘agelessness’ of men. But the truth is — as I think those teenage boys suspected — age exists for us all. It comes to you whether you believe in it or not. And I am now very grateful to be in a body that reminds me every day of this simple human truth. Which is not to say age does not bring me sadness, that I don’t sometimes mourn for my 27-year-old self, nor miss a certain version of my face, breasts, legs or teeth. I feel all of that natural, human sadness. And I do all the usual things — exercise, eat decently, dress optimistically — in the hope of slowing the inevitable process. But there are limits to that hope: limits like the menopause, limits like the end of my fertility. And thank God for them, because hope without limit is another word for delusion.
I can’t imagine discussing Charlie Chaplin with boys as a teen, but I’m no Zadie Smith.
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Opinion | How to Survive Your 40s
Opinion | How to Survive Your 40s
“Forty isn’t even technically middle age anymore. Someone who’s now 40 has a 50 percent chance of living to 95, says the economist Andrew Scott, a co-author of “The 100-Year Life.”
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The Body That Ages – Unruly Bodies – Medium
The Body That Ages – Unruly Bodies – Medium
“It’s a fucking fascinating thing to be a middle-aged woman writer witnessing this hot-and-cold-running cultural commentary on skincare written by young women.“
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Interboro Spirits and Ales
When: Easter Sunday, 4:03pm
I walked the longer walk than anticipated from McCarren Park, down Metropolitan Ave., to Interboro, this brewery/distillery past the Grand St. stop along one of the last remaining gritty strips in Williamsburg. Fittingly, for my last few weeks in NYC, I saw the bank near Graham Ave. that was the source of the closest/only ATM when I first moved here (That doesn’t seem right–wouldn’t there be some in bodegas?) and the razed spot where the White Castle stood. Once when I was 26 after a debauched night with some very young British boys (young enough that they were shocked when I said my age) I met in the Charleston, which I can’t believe is still the Charleston, I walked on Metropolitan all the way home to Ridgewood at 5am (roughly 3.6 miles–I just checked). At 45, I only have minutely better judgment but in 2018 I would definitely spring for a Lyft.
I was meeting Karen, whom I hadn’t seen since I interviewed her, and has lived nearby for 20 years like a good old-school Williamsburger, hanging on, waiting for a payoff. I currently know three other women in this position. I’m impatient. I would just move, but I’ve never had a rent stabilized apartment.
Interboro is mildly confusing because they produce beers, nearly all IPAs, and spirits of all sorts. Most of the clientele were drinking beer, four 4oz tastings for $10, a bargain.
The bartenders switched from The Cars at one point to Operation Ivy. “I haven’t heard this in a long time,” the long-haired one one said to the short-haired. I hadn’t either, and it made me wonder when they became acquainted with this album since I listened to “Energy” in high school and these guys couldn’t have been older than kindergartners in 1989. Then again, I was only six when “Just What I Needed” came out and I’m perfectly familiar with the song. (Operation Ivy weren’t top 40 though…)
Age appropriate? Despite a mostly millennial clientele, I would say yes. There is an added layer to drinking at the same location where the beverages are produced that is nerdy in a way that could attract all ages. I did see a handsome white-haired man who could’ve been mid-40s or mid-50s with a woman of similar age and hair color. He looked like a British character actor who I couldn’t place until this morning. I forgot how in NYC when you see someone who might be someone, it’s not unreasonable that they are that person. This man was not Mark Bonnar, as it turned out, but I’m only mentioning this because I impressed myself that I even turned up this actor’s name with little to go on.
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Let’s see menopausal women on screen – in all their glory | Suzanne Moore
Let’s see menopausal women on screen – in all their glory | Suzanne Moore
I just read an article where a women in her 40s thought you went through menopause in your 60s, so yes to this.